Table of Contents
Foreword 1
Part 1 The Naked Truth About Building a Transparent Business 5
Reclaiming the Goddess 7
The Big Reveal 8
Getting Set Up 12
What Colour You Wear and How To Wear It 17
F*ck Teal, Be… Nude! 23
What the Hell is "Company Culture" 25
Baring It All (or: Principles of open culture) 27
Showing Your Arse To a Wider Audience (or: How to scale open culture) 30
Growing On the Job 34
How Much Are You Worth? 36
On Getting Paid 41
Our Journey Towards Self-Set Pay 45
The Punter's World 49
A War of Distortions 52
The Internal War 56
Stage Blood vs. Real Blood 58
My Inner Man says 60
My Inner Woman says 60
My Inner Voice of Fear says 61
My Inner Adult says 61
When the Hustle Takes Over (or: On startups and personal identity) 62
Part 2 The Feminine Rising and Leadership of the Future 69
Can Marriage Be Sexy? 71
Find Your Sass (or: Leading from the feminine) 75
Growing Bigger Ovaries (or: Leading from the feminine in the business context) 80
A Feather's Touch (or: Key principles of feminine leadership) 84
Entrepreneurship and BDSM 88
Ready To Shine 94
My Inner Voice of Fear says 97
My Inner Woman says 97
Show Up For Your Calling 98
Getting Off Stage Gracefully (or: Welcome to the funeral of your dreams) 101
Couples in Business 104
The Whore in Business 108
The Courage To Feel 111
Do I Want To Hustle in This Joint? (or: How to interview a company you're potentially interested in working for) 115
The Art of Mutual Tease (or: Conflict that creates) 118
Dealing with Hecklers (or: Aspecting as conflict resolution tool) 124
One Tease Too Far (or: Conflict that destroys) 129
The Art of Revelling in Pain 134
Letting the Punter Within Do His Thing 140
Letting the Goddess Within Make Love 144
Your Inner Child at Work 147
For the Love of the Punter 151
For the Appreciation of Fear 153
How To Be C.U.N.T. 155
C.U.N.T. Explained 159
If I Ruled the World 164
Epilogue: From me to you, message in a bottle 167
Acknowledgements 169
Bibliography and recommended reading 171