Childhood Abuse and Thinking About Our Thinking

Aug 15th, 2016 | By | Category: Articles, Christian Alternative, Circle Books

by Sherri L. Board, Co-author of What We’re Afraid to Ask: 365 Days of Healing for Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse

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Years ago, I shared this saying with a therapist, as I was seeking help in having a more positive mental outlook, “You cannot live a positive life with a negative mind.” He said something to me all those years ago that still to this day impacts the way I think about my thinking. He said, “We can think of depression as being caused by a huge tank driving around and around year after year after year in the same grooves of our minds. One way to stop forming deeper grooves is to get rid of the tank and fill in the gutters with positive thoughts.”

It has since become a habit for me to monitor my thinking and when I catch myself thinking negatively, I will think positive thoughts. For example, I might replace the thought “Why was I abused as a child?” with “God’s will for my life is to bring support and understanding to others who also suffer from the effects of childhood abuse.”

It takes time, practice, and being consciously aware of one’s own thoughts. It gently fills in those harmful timeworn grooves of one’s mind with a seeping balm of tenderness.

I wish you God’s peace.

Sherri L. Board



What We’re Afraid to Ask: 365 Days of Healing for Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse

by Sherri L. Board, Jon M. Fleetwood and Anna M. Jones

What We’re Afraid to Ask is a must-read for survivors of childhood abuse who struggle to reconcile their faith with their past. Board, Fleetwood, and Jones demonstrate how Christianity offers reasonable, honest, and encouraging answers to difficult questions regarding abuse while focusing the reader’s attention biblically and psychologically toward Jesus Christ, in whom there is infinite hope.


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